Last Thursday was my senior night, it was an amazing and memorable night. I know that I'll never forget the friends I've made on the cheer team this year. They've accepted me for who I am and helped me become who I should be. One of my best friends, Breanna read a speech for me. It was really touching and in the end we were both crying. It was at that very moment that I realized I had found a true friend and St. Joseph. I realized what a true friend is and how I need to be there for my friends like they have always been there for me.
After the game I had plans to go on an adventure with a few people, I was really excited and was looking forward to it all day, but after Breanna's speech I realized that I needed to be there for my true friends and decided not to go. I had other obligations that I had been ignoring. I was about to make a huge mistake that I would probably regret for the rest of my life...and I know most of you will think I'm a horrible person for even thinking about going out with these people and I completely agree. It really is the smallest decision that makes the biggest impact on your life and I knew I needed to do what was right.

So that night I decided to go visit my best friend Corbin who I've known for as long as I can remember. His kidneys were failing and he was released from the hospital that day after having a second surgery...I knew he would need help getting around and would just want the company. After the game I drove to his house with a tub of his favorite ice cream (play-dough). When I got to his house he gave me a huge hug and then told me he was too sick to eat the ice cream which was kind of a downer because who doesn't love play-dough ice cream?... so we put it in his freezer for later. We ended up staying up until 2 in the morning just talking about life...I was so glad I came to see him and if anything it made my senior night more memorable...So yeah it was my senior night and I was really looking froward to being with everyone from school, but I'm glad I saw Corbin instead because I wouldn't give up this night for anything.
"Love the friends you have, forgive the ones that hurt you, and NEVER let go to a memory that made you happy" - unknown
That's awesome. It sounds to me like you made the right decision. Hopefully, your friend can find peace and comfort on the road to recovery.
ReplyDeleteThis had be thinking quite a bit, and I've come to realize a few things because of it.
ReplyDeleteAlso.. I love those long, late night talks with those you truly care about, whether it being the most random and silly or deep and thought-worthy conversations.
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ReplyDeleteAngela, that was so sweet of you to go spend time with your friend that was in need of some company. I can assure you you'll have plenty of opportunities to go on adventures, but sometimes the chance to truly be there for someone are limited...My best wishes for Corbin :)
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